Friday, December 18, 2009

The Best of Cynthia on Yelp

Cynthia Renaissance Girl H. - CLOSED
http://www.yelp.com/biz/cynthia-renaissance-girl-h-san-diego#hrid:Axm_Q8DAvj5HRyHDkxu7Xg/src:self


Take that you purple headed she devil
http://www.yelp.com/topic/san-diego-take-that-you-purple-headed-she-devil

Apology to Caroline on Yelp

Tinker Bell G. says:

Dearest Caroline...I sincerely apologize to you for jumping the gun.No, you were not the source who mentioned that my cats had died...It was indeed, someone much closer to my heart (thank you Alisa).I know that I will more or less be zapped quickly from this site--So just wanted to state my apology for everyone to see.Caroline was a very true friend to me earlier in the summer.She referred me to medical help at a time and point when I needed it.For that, I will be eternally grateful~

Rico and the banana assault..

Cynthia Hamil to me
show details Dec 13 (5 days ago)

Your intuition was right...
There was a LOT of drama going on at the Victorian House the day that I left...

Chris was in a foul mood, taking it out on Kimberly...

I got out of there, my intuition was just like clipping at my heels to get on the road and get...

Rico called and said that he had mail for me that was mailed to his box...
I had to go and pick it up--
He showed me the place that had been renovated on 44th street--

He asked me to stay with him, bring the dogs--
I needed to get out of the house.

The first night was OK--
But the second day-- he woke up in a bad mood...
I stayed out of the house the entire day-- and told him that I'd be at the gym after 8pm -- getting a good workout in.

He was going to bed at 8pm... which he has NEVER done, the entire time that I've known him. I told him in the morning that I was going to be out all day with the dogs and that I was needing to get a workout in until they closed last night... he already knew the gameplan-- but called me at about 7:45 saying that he was going to go to bed early because he had to be up to collect recycling at an early hour... about 4:30am.

I was coming down with a cold--
That house is cold-- and the only rooms with any form of heat in them were the bathroom and his bedroom.

I told him I was sick, coming down with a cold--
And moved my bedding to the bathroom and tried to fall asleep listening to the water dripping... drop... drop..... drop........................drop..... drop......... drop.

I woke up early -- about 7am, and he had not left-- as he said that he would.
He was sitting there waiting for a quarrel.

I had an intuitive hunch to get all of my things in the car-- ASAP...
So loaded 2 of my suitcases, my computer, and some other things-- where I could more easily get out of there.

He woke up, complaining that there was damage on the wall where the dog's chain had caught the corner-- when they were going down the stairs.

He was furious-- told me to get my things-- that he couldn't have any damage to the house.

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I got dressed, moved the rest of my bags downstairs and left the dogs and their food and water-- in the bathroom.

He saw me coming back up the stairs to get the dogs-- so he acted like he was going to throw the dogs down the stairs. I told him that if he harmed my dogs that I would call the SPCA for animal cruelty and that he'd easily have over a year in imprisonment.

He tossed out all of my bedding-- onto the wet ground outside...
He took fruit that I had brought into the house-- and threw a banana at me-- hitting me square in the nose. My nose is now bright red... I don't know if its broken or not-- but it hurts.

I called 911 to report an assault with a deadly banana... .
(Geez... what a fucked up story).

Anyway...
This was ridiculous...

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I call the couple to see if I can drop off some bedding...

They said that Chris was attacked by Bible's friend's last night -- when Chris went all Machismo on Kim... yelling at her, etc...

Kim had fallen earlier this week and shattered her hand in 7 different places.
Bible's friends heard the argument between Chris and Kim-- and assumed that Chris had beaten Kim. One of those guys started pounding on Chris... the police were called, etc...

Yikes...
So-- Now I can't go back and stay with THAT couple...
That have way too much drama going on.

So what's the truth about the cats?

On Thu, Dec 10, 2009 at 1:30 PM, Cynthia Hamil wrote:

So, what should I do?Go in again and rectify the situation?---------I don't owe these people ANY form of acknowledgment...As you recall, they seemed to all be delighted when I was being evicted from my home.Why should I give them ANY form of response...?No one deserves an explanation.I have told the truth--I did not "Murder" my cats--And they had a far better life with me in the car-- than they would have had in an animal shelter.There were no animal shelters that would take a cat over the age of 6 years old...I didn't want to post them on Craig's list-- because there are medical labs that pick up pets and use them for medical research.They lived a long and healthy life-- for the most part.12 years for a cat-- is a long life span.-----------They ate better than I did...What can I say-- I provided the very best that I could for them-- under the circumstances.----------If they want to know what happened during the months that I was living in the car, and beyond-- tell them that they can buy the book or see the movie.Why should I explain something to a group of unworthy friends-- who have proven time and time again that they could "Care Less" for anyone who is not dashing around drunk at their stupid little yelp get-togethers.These people will never live life in a manner where they absorb 1/2 as much as I did-- the months that I was living in my car with all 4 pets.None of them will ever push themselves to ever be anything more than a contributor on yelp.com.Why do I owe them any form of explanation...They are unworthy as friends-- And are certainly NOT my peers.

Cynthia with Rico at the Food Stamp Office

On Thu, Dec 17, 2009 at 7:27 PM, Cynthia Hamil wrote:

It worked out OK to have Rico hold them while I was in for my appointment.One of the things with this, I really don't want any of my other friends to know my personal business... and that I was having to apply to qualify for food stamps again.Rico is one of the only friends who knows what I've been going through this year. He has been around my dogs and they feel more comfortable with him-- than they would have, staying with a stranger.I didn't feel that anything would happen at that place--They have security guards that walk the property, there are a lot of people coming and going from there.Also-- those silly appointments always take a LOT longer than they mention. I had an appointment at 2pm-- but wasn't out of the building until close to 5pm.None of my other friends would have understood that...Rico knows what a goofed up system they have, so was aware that the appointment could last all afternoon -- rather than just a 15 - 30 min. appointment.For Krissakes, they had me go through the same orientation seminar that they had me take 4 months ago... why? I have no clue.Amazing...I'm constantly amazed at all of the waste that they have in government type offices, etc...Ridiculous.C